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Sunday, June 12, 2005

too hot to fuck

You might be wondering why posting has been so sporadic the past month or so. Well, first I was really busy and exhausted and not having much sex nor really wanting it. My libido tanked. Then, I started my new job. Still, not much libido. I have seen my boyfriend nearly every day for the past week and a half and we only had sex 2 or 3 times (is it bad that neither of us remember for sure?)

The sex is quite good but, to be completely honest, it is too god damn hot to fuck. In my flat, I have window units. They cool the place pretty well but are noisy and cumbersome so they don't always do the trick. At his house, something is wrong with the AC and his bedroom (just his!) is about 20 degrees hotter than the rest of the house. All he has in there are some fans to move the air around a bit. These conditions are simply not conducive to sex between two chubby people. Things get sweaty in a sticky, uncomfortable way; we fatigue easily; and there isn't much sex drive in the first place. Funny thing is that we first met in August (we are coming on our third anniversary) and I recall fucking like bunnies 3-5 times per day. I lived in this same apartment with the same inefficient window units. All of the variables are the same so where is the sex drive now? I'm not complaining, we are both getting what we want and are satisfied and in love. Still, I wonder what is going on. My only hypothesis is that somehow our sex has gotten more efficient. Like 1 session of fooling around is so satisfying that it can stand in for 5. I think this is just wishful thinking. Spending entire days in bed was sort of fun. . .

Meanwhile, it is still damn hot yet my libido is back in full swing. I masturbated a few times today, I am about to take a shower to cool off and take care of myself a few times more. There is an outside chance I will take some pictures. It feels good to be back in the saddle, I do horny well, it imparts a sort of urgency to my day. Expect to be hearing from me more often.


Blogger Emmanuel.K.Bensah II said...

Hi Lumpesse, I just cruised in on ur site by way of wantsandneeds. You write some very interesting things, but for the life of me, why is no-one commenting???

have they gone into some coma or something?;-)

You're going on my favorites, and hey, don't be discouraged by the lack of comments, just keep on posting.

You'll slowly build up a base...


4:44 AM  
Blogger lumpesse said...

Thanks for the kind thoughts e.k. - it seems I have readers and no commenters. That is alright for now.

8:29 PM  
Blogger Living Bi said...

This reminds me of the conversation from "Do the Right Thing" between the old men, discussing whether it's ever "too hot to fuck".

8:44 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Too hot to fuck? Cool down in a shower then get real naughty...or sex in a pool.

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11:20 PM  

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